My father firmly believed that every task has its own value – and therefore deserves to be done as well as possible. He was an electrician through and through. He loved his work. He was always looking for ways to complete his tasks diligently and conscientiously. Even when materials were scarce, he didn’t let that stop him – he would simply build what he needed himself to keep going.
He rarely complained. Instead, he looked for solutions. I was deeply impressed by his dedication and the tireless effort he put in every single day. And when he came home from work, another task was already waiting for him: our small farm, which he managed in an effort to provide for our large family. And even after all that, he still found time and energy to help build up a local church.
My Father Had Dignity
My father carried an unshakable dignity. This is something you can’t buy, nor is it the result of a good upbringing or a certain social status. My father was proud to be both an electrician and a volunteer pastor. He was convinced that his work had meaning – that it made a difference in the lives of others. Out of this deep sense of dignity, he felt a responsibility to do everything with care and wholehearted commitment.
One of the most important pieces of advice he ever gave me was this:
“Son, the fastest way to success and influence is to figure out what you do best – and then find someone who will let you do exactly that.”
That sentence has stayed with me ever since. It has shaped my life – and my understanding of what it means to serve others. My desire is to be an enabler – for the people who come to me, looking to find their own path.
A Few Principles That Guide Me
To live that out, I try to follow the principles I learned from my father – and which I now pass on to others:
- Trust and a Positive Attitude
Be confident, and think positively about the people around you. Trust others – because distrust destroys every relationship. - Vision and Communication
Have a clear vision and concrete goals, and communicate them regularly. Thinking out loud can be a helpful tool. - Responsibility and Recognition
Take responsibility for your own mistakes and failures. At the same time, highlight and celebrate the successes of others. - Perseverance and Determination
Be persistent and never give up. My wife has a wonderful saying that sums this up well: - “When we start something, we don’t stop – we finish it.”
- Integrity and Quality
Never compromise your principles or standards of quality, even when something seems less important. - Unlocking Potential
Bring out the best in others. Surround yourself with the best people – those who have an intrinsic drive, who are willing to grow and committed to continuous improvement. - Focus and Adaptability
Keep working on your focus, and recalibrate it regularly to stay on course.